Saturday Q&A with ImmediateMom - 2nd edition

I thought I'd make this a regular feature in the new year. So here's a few more questions I've received through emails and through my Facebook page:

How has K changed since you first met her?
Wow - how has she NOT changed - that would have been an easier question to answer. The first, and most obvious way, is physically. She's about to turn 13, so the sweet little 10-year-old girl we met is now in full-blown pre-teen mode... but besides that, she's so much more secure in herself, and secure in her place as our child. She's less apprehensive and more likely to voice her feelings. Which, as an almost-teen can sometimes be confusing, but I'd rather she voice what's going on inside than hold it all in (most days, ha!)

Does the state help you after the adoption has finalized?
Yes, we were able to continue with the state-provided counseling to really sure up our family foundations and learn to relate to each other even after the documents were officially signed. It was an important step for us to continue with the routine of weekly counseling, as well as continue to receive the advice of an experienced professional as we adjusted.

Would you adopt again?
That is the hardest question to answer because really it's a surprise that we adopted in the first place. I know we shocked our family and friends with our decision. Honestly, we felt chosen and called to adopt and older child. And, more specifically, we felt called and chosen to adopt K. So, as of right now, I would say we don't feel the calling to pursue another child through adoption. But, as is the life of faith, that calling could come further down the road and we'd answer again as we did the first time because life inside the will of God is blessed.

So, what are you wondering about these days? Can I help answer any of your adoption questions? Leave a question in the comments or email me at immediatemom at gmail dot com.

Thanks for your readership!